Black Friday 2023: Best sex toy sales and deals

UPDATE: Nov. 24, 2023, 3:06 p.m. EST This story has been updated with additional Black Friday deals on sex toys, accessories, lube, and more.

Black Friday may evoke images of chaos and long lines — frenzied shoppers scrambling to get their hands on the latest video game console, the best air fryer deal, or the most coveted electronics. However, for those of you after something a little more personal, Black Friday is one of the best times of the year to snag a sex toy (or two, or three) for less.

From luxe vibrators to bondage sets and everything in between, you can find a wide range of toys, lube, accessories, and more at discounted prices during Black Friday.

Whether you’ve decided that this is the year to buy your first sex toy, are looking for the perfect gift, or just want to expand your collection while the prices are at their lowest, we’ve rounded up some of the best Black Friday sex toy deals you can get right now.

Note: All newly added deals are marked with a ✨, while deals with a 🔥 have dropped to an all-time low price. Deals with a strikeout were either sold out or expired at the time of writing.

Best deal overall

Why we like it

Playboy Pleasure’s The Swan Vibrator isn’t your average run-of-the-mill vibrator. This uniquely designed piece of art (if we may) works wonders for multiple pleasure zones, and as of right now, you can get it for less than $50 — that’s definitely a deal worth celebrating.

With its luxe, super soft silicone material and two gently curved shafts for G-spot, P-spot, or clitoral stimulation, this gorgeous, gorgeous vibe will quickly earn its place as a go-to favorite in your collection (you may even display it on your nightstand — the flat base makes it perfect for that). It features 10 vibrating speeds and rhythms in each shaft, so you can really customize your pleasure experience based on your mood and preferences.

Even though one arm is technically designed to move within you, you can use this toy however you want. If you’d rather focus on external stimulation, the two-shaft design makes it easy to hold and maneuver for targeted pleasure. Tingle other erogenous zones like the nipples, thighs, perineum, or wherever else you’d like some extra sensation.

Best thruster deal

Why we like it

If you need even more, we recommend the King vibrating thruster by ZALO. But be warned: This toy is not for the faint of heart. It’s designed to give you intense, deep penetration (and maybe even reach places you didn’t know existed), and it does just that.

With eight power-thrusting modes and a frequency of up to 40 times per second, the King vibrating thruster isn’t playing around. It’s also kind of heavy to hold (we recommend laying on your back, knees up, and placing it on a pillow to hold it between your legs), but trust us, it’s worth it. (You’ll also need lube.)

It also features four vibration modes, is embellished with REAL SWAROVSKI crystal (yasss), and has a sleek and water-resistant design that you can take into the shower or bath (probs the bath).

Best wand vibrator deal

Why we like it

If penetration isn’t your thing (it’s def not for everyone) and you prefer external stimulation, then you might want to check out this deal on Fun Factory’s VIM vibrating wand.

The VIM is the world’s first weighted-rumble wand vibrator and boy, does it rumble. With settings from gentle to over-the-edge, the VIM will send the rumbliest of pleasure waves straight into your soul, and that’s not an exaggeration; we freaking love this wand.

The orgasm you get from the VIM is probably unlike anything you’ve experienced with other wand vibrators. It’s like an all-body pleasure tsunami that builds and builds until it crashes over you. It’s also super quiet (50% quieter than other wand vibrators), has a flexible head, and easy to hold (the vibrations stay in the head, not the handle).

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Best clitoral suction toy deal

Why we like it

We’ve said it before, and we’ll say it again: Tracy’s Dog OG Sucking Vibrator is worth every penny. And at 20% off, you’ll want to hop on this deal ASAP. Despite its strange name, Tracy’s Dog OG Sucking Vibrator has all of the bells and whistles you could ever want out of a suction toy.

From its powerful sucking and pulsating functions to its ergonomic design that fits perfectly in your hand, this toy is designed to stimulate the clitoris like never before. Its two-in-one clit stimulator and vibrator make it ideal for foreplay (pop it in while you’re giving head; you can thank us later) or hands-free solo sessions.

But don’t just take our word for it: This toy is famous for its crazy online reviews. In 2019, one reviewer wrote an absolute banger of a review in which they said they “blacked out” from the intensity of pleasure while using this toy. We didn’t add it to our list of the best sex toys for women for nothing!

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Best male sex toy deal

Why we like it

Lovehoney’s Blowmotion warming vibrating male masturbator is as close as you’ll get to a real experience. Reviewers praise this toy for its intense sensations and realistic feel. Plus, thanks to its warming feature, you can really feel your fantasy come to life.

This high-tech stroker has a three-inch interior canal that warms up to 104 degrees Fahrenheit, providing a lifelike and pleasurable experience. Its six vibration speeds and three intensities let you customize how and when you’d like to hit maximum pleasure.

It’s also ideal for travel and discreet storage (it has a travel lock and is USB-rechargeable), so you can take your O on the go.

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Best anal toy deal

Why we like it

When it comes to ass play, comfort and safety are the only two factors that should dictate what you buy. The best material for this is glass. Body-safe silicone is always a good option, but glass toys are non-porous, easy to clean, and can be used with any lubricant.

That’s why we recommend Playboy Pleasure Jewels Plug. It’s perfect for beginners, is made with body-safe borosilicate glass, features a flared base for easy insertion and removal, and a bulbous teardrop shape designed for that oh-so-delightful feeling of fullness.

Plus, it’s gorgeous.

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All the Black Friday sex toy deals you need to know about

• 30% off all Playboy Pleasure at Lovers through 12/2

• 25% off sitewide at High On Love through 11/29 with code HOLBF25

• 30% off sitewide at OhMiBod through 11/27

• 30% off orders $50+ at PlusOne through 11/26

• 30% off sitewide at Eye of Love through 11/27

• 20% off We-Vibe, Womanizer, Arcwave, and Pjur at Lovers through 12/2 with code WOW20

• 20% off Black Friday sitewide sale + Free Ground Shipping on ALL orders at Lovers with code LOVERSBF through 11/26

• 35% off sitewide at ZALO with code CYBER35 through 11/27

• $10 off $75+, $30 off $200+, $50 off $300+ at Lioness through 11/27

• 25% off sitewide at LUBELIFE through 11/27

• 25% off sitewide at Steamy Lit through 11/28

• 30% off sitewide at ZUMIO through 11/27

• 25% off sitewide at The Thruster, L’Acier and Voila through 12/1

• 25% off sitewide at Femme Funn on 11/24 with code FUNNFRIDAY

• Up to 70% off select items at Lovehoney through 11/30

• Up to 70% off at Babeland

• Up to 70% off at Good Vibes

• Up to 30% off at Fun Factory through 11/29

• Up to 50% off select items at Love Not War through 11/27

• Up to 50% off select items at Hot Octopuss through 11/27